“Am I doing this right?”

Apr 14, 2026

When we reach unfamiliar places, our minds can reach for: “Am I doing this right?”

To give some context for where I’ve been…

A couple years ago, I stepped back from community – from the roles and identities of the healer, the teacher, the space holder… the one who was needed.

And over this last year, I’ve been letting go of even more…

The people-pleaser.

The over-giver.

The perfectionist!

Instead, I've been learning my needs.

Taking care of myself.

Setting boundaries.

Refusing to let myself be used or manipulated by others because honestly…

I never learned or was taught how to claim:

My center, my autonomy, or my power!!! 🤍⭐

I am giving myself more care.

More compassion.

More love.

More grace.

More understanding.

More presence and holding all of me!

I am raising my standards –

and my beliefs about what I deserve.

I am becoming stronger in my center,

standing on my own two feet - rooted. 🤍

I am building safety and stability.

I am slowly rebuilding my life from within.

And I remind myself…

This space is a gift!

An offering to spend more time with myself.

To light my spark back up! 🤍⭐️

To enjoy the simplest – especially the simplest – parts of life again! 🤍❤️⭐

So in these moments of stillness – when my mind is reaching – when the question of “am I doing this right?” begins to surface… I come back to what this really is:

A gift,

A returning,

An opportunity to live from within!!! 🧘🏻‍♀️🤍✨